Swinger Club Advice 🥰
So we get a lot of questions on what ..
🕑 Added 2024-01-06 16:17:31 +0000 UTC
Swinger Club Advice 🥰
So we get a lot of questions on what clubs we attend or what the vibe is like at the club.
Here is my opinion on clubs - I’m sure many opinions vary as you’ll find in the lifestyle but these have been our experiences!
Clubs we’ve frequented - we’ve really only been to two major clubs. In Pittsburgh the Bodyshop & in Philadelphia Pleasure Garden Club (PGC)
Honestly since having kids we haven’t attended clubs as much. It’s great to have a babysitter at night, but most clubs go until 4 AM so that creates a terrible morning when they wake up at 7 😅😂 so unfortunately we’re in the season of our life we can’t do clubs as much
Expectations - everyone is super nice! There will be SOME cliques of regulars, but nobody was ever blatantly rude. You WILL have to approach people. Very rarely do attractive couples come up to you. The people that come up to you are typically single men or many times couples we weren’t attracted to. The Bodyshop has a GREAT feature that you can message couples on the site so you know who is coming before you go! PGC tried to do this through SLS but we’ve found 90% of the hot couples who are “confirmed” never show up 😅😂
To give you an idea, we’ve played with couples at both. Bodyshop we almost always have a couple in mind so we’ve been able to get more nights of 2 couples in one night there (the couple we play with plus a new spontaneous one). PGC we’ve never struck out, but many times we almost have to speed date to find someone that matches our vibe
Variety - there will be a LOT of different fetishes. Many couples only want women, soft swap, or same room no swap. We’ve even met couples that show up just to watch their partner flirt / dance but never play, so consider this when going. Not every couple has sex with others
Rooms - each club has private play rooms, however many times these fill up by midnight which becomes difficult to play! Bodyshop more so than PGC, but still can be annoying
Phones - we liked Bodyshop better than PGC with phone rules. Bodyshop just says be respectful & if they catch you with it out in a public area, you will get a warning. PGC doesn’t allow phones. They frisk you when walking in 😅 so not ideal for me. However everyone still brings in phones, I found this out after our first time, girls just put them in their bras.
Smoking - not sure if this has changed but PGC still allows smoking which I don’t enjoy. Bodyshop has an outdoor area so it smells clean
Age range - the clubs do have different themes, but if you’re under 30 expect to have maybe 2-5 potential options each night. Most couples are older 40+. So again, why I like the Bodyshops system of online matching before attending
Price - most clubs are around $40-$60 for entry. Also they charge annual fees of around $50-$75. So the first time you go it could be $120 or so. It is BYOB so you just have to tip the bartender after that.
Hope this helps! If there are any points I missed let me know! Or if anyone frequents these clubs and has any feedback feel free to comment!
