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In Search of a Sexwife/Hotwife“I’m looking for a girl who wi..
🕑 Added 2025-01-04 08:28:38 +0000 UTCIn Search of a Sexwife/Hotwife
“I’m looking for a girl who will immediately agree to sleep with others, and we’ll get married. She’ll make me a cuckold. How do I find someone like that?”
I sometimes get messages like this in my inbox. I also see them on themed dating sites.
How much these messages annoy me! Do you even understand the essence of the sexwife/cuckold dynamic and why people come to it? Sure, if you’re looking for a girl for a couple of sessions to live out your fantasies, that’s one thing. But there are those who are genuinely seeking such relationships for the long term—marriage and everything.
Sexwife/Hotwife and cuckold relationships are about a well-established couple. They found each other long before deciding to spice up their lives. At the core of their relationship, surprisingly enough, is LOVE!
One of the key elements of love is TRUST. Building a trusting relationship takes years and requires a lot of effort.
Now, keeping this in mind, let’s consider whether it’s possible to find a “ready-made” hotwife.
Obviously, NO!!!
Let’s imagine you find a girl who agrees to this. And then what? How do you even picture this? She moves into your house (or you into hers), and from the next day, she starts looking for a lover? Or does she wait until after the wedding?
This idea is so absurd that I struggle to find words.
I understand that 99.9% of the men writing these messages are sitting there with their dick in hand. They’re jerking off, and their overheated brain is generating nonsensical ideas. But even fantasies need boundaries. While you’re turned on, this might seem like a fun idea. But what would such a family look like in everyday life? I can’t even imagine.
Maybe I’m missing something, and there are couples out there who met this way and made it work?
