One of the most common things I get asked is “how can I make..
🕑 Added 2020-07-22 19:24:43 +0000 UTC
One of the most common things I get asked is “how can I make my girlfriend love cum as much as you do?!” And I never really know how to answer, because I never really think about it, it’s just natural to me.
But… it’s a question that gets asked to frequently now that I feel like I should at least share my own thoughts with you.
The first thing you should know is I’ve not always loved (or even liked) cum. I wasn’t what you’d call a “cumslut” until I met Josh. With all of my exes/previous sexual partners… cum didn’t really cross my mind. It didn’t mean much to me and I didn’t think about it as a big part of my sex life. To me it just kind of signified the end of a “session” 😂
Not only that… there were many times with my exes, when if they came too close to my face, it’d actually make me cringe a bit, or even gag slightly. Oh yeah, I’d never received a facial until 2 years ago when I met Josh either btw.
Anyway, on to the tips and good stuff…
1. This goes without saying, but not all women are the same. Just like how you might not like a certain food, there are people who simply don’t like the taste/feel/smell of cum. Some people won’t change no matter how much they try to, and that’s absolutely fine. Just accept it, and NEVER pressure someone into trying something they really don’t want to.
2. Diet. Health. Hydration. These are 3 very simple, easy things that all go hand in hand. Think about your breath… it doesn’t smell great after eating a packet of cheese & onion crisps. Think the same about your cum 😂 If you only eat fake, processed, crappy food… that’ll reflect how your cum tastes, smells and even feels. I’m not saying you need to stick to purely eating salads everyday, but try to stay away from shit like KFC. Also, fake fizzy driinks don’t help either, they dehydrate you. Driink LOTS of water. Stay hydrated! Not only will this hopefully make your cum taste nicer - it should help you cum MORE too.
3. If you’re desperate to give your girlfriend a facial, but you know she isn’t into cum… cumming on her face without much warning is the worst possible thing you can do. Although it may not seem particularly “sexy”, communication is SO important. Tell her your kinks in a friendly, easy, non-pressured open conversation. Explain to her that it’s something you love the idea of and you’d really like to try it, but be sure to let her know that there’s absolutely NO pressure, and that you’d be happy with her for the rest of your life even if it never happened.
4. Following on from the last point… be gradual. If she agrees to trying more things to do with cum play, ease her into it. Start by cumming on her stomach, then her boobs, then her face, then her mouth etc etc. In my experiences from previous relationships, the closer it got to my face, the more intimidating and the more “icky” I found it.
5. WARN HER. TELL HER WHEN YOU’RE ABOUT TO CUM. TELL HER MINUTES BEFORE, THEN SECONDS BEFORE. LET HER PREPARE HERSELF.
Honestly, I can’t even tell you if any of these points will work. Like I said, in previous relationships… cum pretty much grossed me out. Whereas with Josh, I lap it up like a kitten driinking milk. I love it. We never really discussed much to do with it… all I do know is that he never pushed or pressured anything, everything was at my own pace. Once I knew there was nothing to be “afraid” of and once I realised how much I adored pleasing him, I became addicted.
I hope this has helped in one way or another! 😉
