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[📋] I'll be back next month! + Update about my situation
🕑 Added 2022-10-25 10:37:38 +0000 UTCHi everyone!
First of all, thank you so much for your overwhelming support during my short hiatus. Between the surgery and the mental stress I went through this past several weeks, I'm so grateful to know that there are many rooting for me!
As the title says, I am definitely making plans to be back next month (November). I've actually decided to move back to Canada (my flight is tomorrow) so I just need to spend a bit of time with family and then I'm good to film :)
As paying subscribers, I believe that you guys deserve to know a bit about what happened.
The surgery went well and I'm happy with the outcome. I would've been good to film again even last week but I went through a depressive state. Basically, one of my friends (now ex-friend) have borrowed a lot of money earlier this year and until now, have not paid me back even with a contract for some of them after numerous attempts and with lawyers involved. I felt a great deal of betrayal and stress as I was misled and manipulated that the money I worked very hard on would be returned to me.
As I decided to move back to Canada, my lawyer have told me that suing will be very difficult since we will not know when the hearings would be scheduled (would depend on the court's docket). Unfortunately for claims like this, I need to be physically present. So basically, I am currently just waiting and trusting that my ex-friend would honour her word that she would pay me back.
For me to be able to move on, I just need to put what is happening past me and start anew. I realized that I can't keep dwelling on what I have no control over. After feeling defeated, I must take on what I can do in this moment which is to surround myself with people I trust and be in a comfortable environment.
UPCOMING CONTENT
- SMF
- Album reactions
- NCT 127 The Link+ (does anyone have a link? Please DM me)
- MAMA 2022
- welcome to NCT Universe (NEW)
- Le Sserafim Documentary (Tentative)
- Starship x Game Caterers (Tentative)
- For Kdrama, I wanna check out Reborn Rich or Bad Prosecutor (Depends how I feel about the pilots; Let me know which one you like better!) (Update: Might wait til Island with Cha Eunwoo comes out to decide which one)
- + Other ones that may come out
Comments
Amni Mohamed
Welcome back Jeff! Hope you are feeling better now and always take care of your physical and mental health. Sending all positive vibes from here :)
Kym
Jeff I'm so sorry that you're going through this betrayal by your friend. You don't deserve that and I hope everything works out. Take as much time as you need for your mental and physical health. I'm glad you'll be surrounded with your support system. I've definitely missed seeing your posts but none of that is important. Your mental and physical health is most important. Please be take care and we all love and support you.
Lily08
Hope you are feeling better and I believe we all as fans are rooting for you and your wellbeing. Do not hesitate to take more rest if you feel like you need to and we all send you positive vibes and a big virtual hug! I hope one day you can watch the K-Drama’s: Mouse, it’s okay not to be okay, love in contract, doom at your service and maybe blind as well😃 Have a safe trip back home and enjoy your family as much as you can!❤️
Becca
I'm so sorry that happened to you with a friend(ex) 😔 that's horrible and so disappointing..I'm glad you're doing better as far as recovering from the surgery and are taking whatever steps you can to move forward and continue to heal mentally, physically, and emotionally. Take your time as you are moving and spend time with family. Can't wait to see more starting next month! ❤️❤️
Sandy Cai
Hi Jeff, I'm truly saddened and sorry for what you had to go through and still going through right now. You've worked so hard and gone through a lot. I'm praying and hoping that only better things are coming for you from now on. I know you don't know me, but you have been somewhat like a friend to me. You've always been my go to reactor. I wished I was there when you needed someone. I'm also in PH. I was hoping I'd meet you someday. But anyway I'm glad your surgery went well. You take all the time you need to rest and feel good again. When you are ready, we are gonna be here for you, always. Stay mentally and physically healthy. Virtual hug! 💓💓💓
Lauryn L
Glad to hear that your surgery went well. Sending positive vibes 💓
Anna Grigoryan
Take lots of care of yourself!💓😇
Julian
I hope you can check out Semantic Error if you have not seen it yet. It’s really short 🥹 as most Korean BLs are. I can only imagine your reaction. Hehe. The male leads are both idols and it’s garnered some awards 🏆
Julian
Glad you’re feeling better and so sorry about what happened. It’s unfortunate that you can’t even count on the people you think you can trust. I hope you get paid back and karma gets that shameless person.
joannatanecaa
Hi Jeff! Glad that your recovering!! Can’t wait for your new uploads especially with The Link+ bec I know you’ll be reacting to it & I didn’t watch. Please react to Bad Prosecutor. DO is my favorite & he’s such a good actor. Will wait for you to watch it together. Hope everything will be well with your trip back to Canada ❤️
Claudia Peixoto
Hi Jeff! I really hope that you're feeling better. I DM you on Instagram with the link for NCT 127 The Link+! I'm excited to see you watching it! Have a good day!
Lyly
Hi Jeff. Usually I don’t comment at all because it’s very hard for me to speak or write in English. I really enjoy watching your video. I sorry to hear that you are a hard time. I wish you well and I’m here waiting patiently for your new content.
Martha
Hey Jeff, so good to hear from you and it’s unfortunate what you are going through. Just hope you’re taking care of your mental health and don’t feel too pressured to come back just because we are paying subscribers, your mental health comes first! Bad Prosecutor is actually so good, such a different character from D.O but he plays it so well. And I think with Reborn Rich, it’s yet to be determined until it officially starts. BTW, did you hear about SF9 Zuho got a role as a lead in a new BL drama??
Joanne Elizabeth
Hi Jeff thank you for updating us 💚 I have genuinely been worried about you 😔 I'm glad your surgery went well but very sorry to hear you have had this situation with your ex friend . I really think going back to your family is the right idea and I hope it will all work out 💚❤️ looking forward to seeing you back especially for the link + , it was incredible would love to watch it again with you ❤️❤️
Sara
Hello Jeff. Supporting you is the least i can do as ur subscriber, although i wish i can do way more but that's beyond my capabilities. I'm really relieved your surgery went well. I was genuinely worried and wanted to check up on you on Twitter but you didn't reveal to them you did a surgery so it wasn't my right to talk about it. I'm really sorry for what you went through. It isn't easy to put that much betrayal in the past but I'm sure you will feel better with time. I honestly missed you so fucking much. These past weeks have been the hardest on me. From college stress to physical and mental health, it was a WRECK. Before, i used to be able to bear it the moment i see you post a reaction even to content I'm not interested in i would still watch it and i just feel way better. You are just so entertaining and that's enough for me. I literally stopped watching everything even comebacks and SMF cause i wanted to watch it with you, soon hopefully. Thank you so much for not taking a longer break which honestly you deserve. You decided to come back for us and i appreciate it. Welcome back , you have been missed 🤍🤍
elise
Hi Jeff, I'm glad your surgery went well and I'm sorry to heard what you went through. I hope everything will get better for you, you are such a nice person and deserve only happiness. Take care of you, your health is more important than anything. 😊❤️ For the drama, I didn't watch any of them, I went to see the summary, if I only choose with this, I would say Bad Prosecutor and also I see more people talk about it than the first one
Keelia Michelle
Great to hear your surgery has gone well. so sorry, though, to hear about the situation. I hope all goes well. please take care of yourself first.
Gayathiri Rajendran
Hi Jeff,it’s great that you had a good recovery from the surgery. I’m sorry that you had to go through this. I know this must be hard.Everything will be okay,don’t worry. You’re doing really well right now. Fighting! I enjoy watching Bad Prosecutor. You’re going to love this.D.O’s acting is too good in this and his micro expressions are to die for. 😎I can’t wait to see you react to this drama.
