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I'm Non Binary... and Horny! (Full Process + Behind the Scenes))
🕑 Added 2022-12-14 20:06:35 +0000 UTCHello Undies!
So as many of you now already know, I decided to officially come out as Non Binary on Social Media. It wasn't necessarily a secret, but I wasn't very vocal about it either. I added NB to my bios a while ago, but I'm finally comfortable enough to say it out loud and proud!
I also thought it might be fun to show you guys some behind the scenes of my full process and how I typically make my mini comics! So here are the Roughs, Line Art, Flat Colors and the Final Render. Not planing on sharing this anywhere else, it's just for Patrons!
Also! I might share this eventually online, but for now I'll just tell you guys.
I actually finally figured out I was NB my first few weeks at college. (Keep in mind pronoun recognition and such was not really a thing yet.) We were in an auditorium filled with the entire freshman class. The speaker was telling us to stand up when they would say something that was true about ourselves or if we related to what was said. They eventually asked if anyone experienced feeling like more than one gender or if feeling like having no gender at all. After some thought, I stood up. But then realized I was the only one out of 200-300 people in the room that did. I realized then that I was not just a double minority, but in fact a triple minority. It was a bit overwhelming and people were nice about it overall, but I'll never forget the feeling of being so isolated. I'm sure there was at least one other person there who was probably NB, but wasn't sure enough or comfortable enough to share it in a public setting.
I don't want anyone to feel isolated or completely alone. So even though I'm relatively small online, I'd still like to be open representation for those that might relate. Many of us are still afraid to come out due to backlash, harassment and abandonment... which I've experienced many times first hand. But at the end of the day I'm much happier being my true self. And I hope you guys will like me regardless of my gender or lack there of.
Anyways... there have been a few ups and downs since coming out, but overall it's been a good experience filled with a lot of love and support!
Thanks for all your support guys!! <3
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I really hope it helps at least a few people by being visibly out. Itβs though out there π₯Ίπ
Thank you love β€οΈ
as a fellow amab NB who was like, the first openly non-binary person most of my college faculty and peers met, i really get that feeling of "oh! i just realized something about me!" paired with "oh no! i suddenly feel very isolated and alone in my experience even with a supportive community around me!" and i also believe that people like us who chose to be brave about being ourselves are doing immense good for ourselves and other NBs around us! you should be so proud of yourself!
Mynameis_Jeff
I love you just the way you are! You are perfect in every way possible! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
