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Do These 4 Simple Things to Deeply Hypnotize Your Partner, by bimbo sleepingirl
🕑 Added 2022-01-21 20:45:26 +0000 UTCThis is an article based off of a dream I had -- in the dream, I was a bimbo and didn’t even really notice despite the way that I was dressed (sluttily) and what I was saying (inanity). I had to give an impromptu lecture about how to do hypnosis, and I caught myself saying some really interesting things. It was only later in the dream that I realized I had been doing it bimbofied. When I woke up, I thought to myself, “Oh, wow -- actually, I had a couple of points there that might be worth exploring.” (Of course, after freaking out a little about how natural it felt to just be a bimbo in my dreams.)
This is not meant to be taken 100% seriously, but I also feel as though it’s worth not dismissing. I might be a total dum-dum, but I also know a lot about how hypnosis works, and I unconsciously make some pretty interesting connections between those parts of myself. I did not write this article while completely “in bimbo space” or what have you -- parts, yes, but it was less about turning myself into a bimbo (or having a partner do it) and more about learning how I could be in touch with that very strongly integrated part of myself at all times. How able am I to access those capabilities outside of certain contexts? (The answer: quite able, and leads me to want to write something simply based off this concept -- letting go of “putting someone into a box” and instead acknowledging capabilities as available at all times. But I digress.)
I think I should say that in terms of content warnings, I talk a fair bit explicitly about sex here -- also, I’m hesitant to say “parts of this read hypnotically” because I know that that influences its actual hypnotic-ness, but there is a fair bit of hypnotic language examples and no effort given into making it NOT hypnotic (or responsible… I AM a bimbo, after all). Anyways, enjoy!
Do These 4 Simple Things to Deeply Hypnotize Your Partner, by bimbo sleepingirl
Thanks for reading this article about how to do hypnosis! It’s very sexy and hot and I think that everyone should do it. People say that hypnosis is complicated, but actually it’s really simple if you get rid of all of the unnecessary complicated stuff. We could talk a bunch about how hypnosis works and try to cover all of our bases, try to figure out what makes it tick under all circumstances. But -- who cares about ALL hypnosis! I only care about GOOD hypnosis. So let’s talk about that.
1. Know that Hypnosis is Very Sexy and Hot
The most important thing to remember about hypnosis is that it’s very sexy and hot. This should be our guiding principle and you can pretty much ignore everything else if you really focus on that. If you do something sexy to someone, and you find it sexy, and they find it sexy, then there you go! Hypnosis has more in common with good fucking than it does with, say, driving a car. Malleable, erotic focus that is reliant on and driven by an interpersonal connection.
So if you change your underlying metaphor about what hypnosis is like, you change a lot about the way to approach it! It’s not really sexy to talk to someone about driving down a highway, or watching a movie, or reading a book. It’s not sexy for most people to experience those things or to imagine them. Are they hypnotic? Sure, but I don’t really care. I guess they’re hypnotic in that someone’s focus changes, and their perspective changes -- thus, the way that they behave, feel, experience, and have capabilities changes. But there’s not enough room for understanding how two people are responsive to each other, which is literally the actual thing that hypnosis is. And those metaphors aren’t hot! You know what is hot? Sex. I mean, hypnosis.
We’re here to do erotic hypnosis, and it doesn’t matter if sex isn’t the thing that you and your partner find sexy. Sex is a metaphor, anyways. It does matter that the way that you act and behave is one that is intimate, engaging, and hot in some mutual fashion. The way you touch them, the way you look at them. Wanna know why excellent hypnotists seem to be able to deeply hypnotize their subject just by sticking their dick in their mouth? It’s because they’ve stopped giving a fuck about the very nonsexy supposed rules of trance and they acknowledge every part of intimacy as hypnotic. They’ve thrown away the idea of hypnosis as a limited state and embraced each and every change in focus and attention as trance. And then their partner is free to feel that too! Just do something hot -- wiggle your fingers in front of their face, look deeply into their eyes, touch them the way you want to touch them, and then when they take that breath in or blush just say, “Did you notice that?” It’s easy!
So: Sex is hypnotic, and hypnosis is sexy. Our new, fun premise is that sex is hypnotic because we know that perspective shifts are what drive hypnotic response, and eroticism is good at creating perspective shifts that mirror interpersonal intimacy. So when you do hypnosis, you want to tap into the sexiness of your actions! If sex is just a metaphor, we can think of it as a metaphor for hypnosis -- and hypnosis as a metaphor for sex. Hypnotize your partner as if you were having sex with them! Think about how sex is about the building of tension, the lead up, the erotic focus on sensation and mental stimulation, the moments where intensity swells.
2. Be Hot
If hypnosis is all about being sexy, then YOU need to be sexy. One of the key ingredients of hypnosis is focus, and one of the sexiest things about hypnosis is the way that you direct and control your partner’s focus. A really good way to command attention is to be super fucking hot, because people like to focus on hot things, and often do so unconsciously! Think about the trope of the person constantly distracted by their partner, the way they move, the way they talk -- eyes always caught, daydreaming about them… That’s what I want to do to my partners! Especially when I’m hypnotizing them!
This doesn’t have anything to do with physical attractiveness -- it’s about how you carry yourself, how you behave, how you view yourself. If you give yourself the respect you deserve (without being an asshole about it), your partner will mirror that respect and focus. Wear clothes that make you feel good, move in ways that make you feel sexy, talk in ways that drip with sex. Everyone has the capability to be sexy, and you can give yourself a little boost by even just doing one vain thing. I like to Google self-care and fashion stuff to get ideas -- I just made a list recently and it’s got stuff on it like “moisturize your skin” and “hydrate so you can drool more.” A lot of this is just about respecting the scene that you do with a partner. You’re entering into a unique, intimate space with them, so you should aim to acknowledge that by getting into sex-mode.
Pacing can help a lot here, too. Your partner is interested in playing with you for a reason, so pace them about that reason -- feed back to them about their interest in you. “You love my voice SO much…” “There’s something so hot about staring into my eyes…” “I know you love the way my forearms peek out of my shirt, isn’t that such a nice thing to notice your attraction to that?” Entangle your partner in your hotness, and use their focus on you to smooth out their brain. YOU can be a hypnotic fixation! It’s so good for the control and power to come directly from the source of one’s attraction. Use your whole body to express yourself, don’t just sit stoic in a chair across from them!
3. Make Them Hot
Sex is WAY better when both people are feeling attractive and fuckable, and so is hypnosis. You can do a lot of good by encouraging your partner to feel sexy when they’re being hypnotized. Sometimes, people feel really self conscious about how they think they look in trance, or they can be worried that somehow you’re not getting anything out of hypnotizing them! (Crazy, I know.)
Obviously some of this is just about being enthusiastic and telling your partner how sexy it is to see them go deep, how attracted you are to them, what their trance face does to you. But you can make this more believable for them by drawing upon the transformative aspects of hypnosis.
Let them feel themselves getting hotter as they go deeper into trance, describe the feeling of change. Sometimes people struggle with coming to terms with the idea that they’re hot, so taking them out of that framing and literally changing their perception of themselves can do the trick. Changing the context and framing of something is one of the key aspects to changing someone’s perspective! You could describe very subtle body changes that mirror their actual physiology -- “Your face and lips smooth out as the muscles in your face relax, looking more and more like hypnosis porn…” Or you could control their mind to change their perception of themselves -- “Your brain helplessly obeys me and restructures itself to see you as you truly are, a sexy, deep, hypnotized thing, what you’ve always wanted to be…”
4. Make Them Dumb
OK, OK. I know what you’re thinking. So typical of a bimbo to say that everyone should dumb down! That sleepingirl, she’s so obsessed with bimbofication. How cute. She’s so sexy.
Why, thank you! But no! I’m here to make a totally serious case for all hypnosis including IQ popping, and it’s completely based in reality -- and Ericksonian principles! See, I’m smart, too.
When we think about what hypnosis is -- or maybe more accurately what most people are looking for when they are looking to experience hypnosis -- we arrive at the idea that something about the way they process has to change. Erickson’s model of hypnosis is very basic: If someone experiences a change in perception, they experience a change in their capabilities. Like if you are trying to solve a problem, and you think about it in a different way, or you try to put yourself in someone else’s shoes to gain the capabilities to see things from their perspective -- to think differently. Or like you’re having sex, and you start to focus differently on your partner’s mouth, or something mentally stimulating -- your capabilities for feeling pleasure change.
Erickson acknowledged that therapeutically, he hypnotized clients to broaden their capabilities so that they could solve their own problems. He saw trance itself as a natural process shift, one that had the potential to give people access to parts of themselves that they didn’t normally have access to while “awake.” But one of the ways that he would prove (or “convince”) this shift to clients was in the way that he thought of hypnosis.
In “Hypnotic Realities,” he talks about an effective hypnotic state as one where the client’s capabilities are different -- not just expanded, but also limited in other ways. These limitations often have to do with the way that a person feels -- Erickson and Rossi talk about how they want clients to feel as though they are not “doing”; their unconscious processes are happening independently of effort. They write, “This autonomous flow of undirected experience is a simple way of defining trance … Frequently this can be experienced as momentarily losing abilities that are usually performed in an automatic and unthinking manner. Subjects can lose the ability to stand up or to keep a hand on the thigh.”
This idea is further emphasized in a more psychological space -- there is an element of “not knowing.” Erickson’s clients were often encouraged to let go of conscious knowledge, to know that they didn’t have to know anything. It was all part of his desire to have his subjects experience a quality of trance where they could let processes happen automatically. It is to reduce reliance on the parts of a person that function with conscious intent. He often included elements of regression in his sessions -- again, something that shifts perspective in a way that both expands and limits capabilities.
Remember! This is not descriptive of ALL hypnosis, only what Erickson saw as GOOD hypnosis. He saw a lot of value in getting a person to a place where they felt that they did not have to do anything and did not have to know anything. And this mirrors a lot of our desires in kink -- a subject with an erotic interest in hypnosis is most often interested in feeling their autonomy removed in some fashion. They don’t want to feel like they are doing. They don’t want to feel like they are knowing. They want to feel controlled -- but how do you make someone feel control? It comes from the feeling of being limited, being unable to act “normally.”
This is especially relevant in the mind when we are talking about erotic hypnosis. People are looking for limitations in the way that they think and process -- the desire for blankmindedness, controlled thoughts. We often feel that step one of working with a subject is often tempering their expectations about what trance feels like -- “No, you won’t be completely blank; yes, your mind will still wander.” But instead of going right up against their desires, we can use them as a springboard. Perhaps blankness is not a given, but you CAN give them something convincing about changing the way that they feel about thinking, and it’s this alteration that feeds into someone’s perception of being hypnotized (especially in the way they want).
You know what’s a really great way to make someone feel mentally limited? Literally reduce their mental capabilities! Prove to them that their perception is altered -- you can do this by pointing out very subtle cues and emphasizing them. Tell them that they can’t help the impulse to think about what you tell them to think about. Tell them that there are things that they are processing in the moment that are hidden underneath their awareness. Tell them that at all times in their life, there are things that they don’t have to consciously know, things that are taken care of without ever thinking about them. And tell them that now, in hypnosis, they have a greater capability for that to feel really good, and they don’t have to do anything to make it happen.
And once you’ve got them on board with that, you can limit them even further -- they don’t have to be able to think the way they usually think. They don’t have to be able to process in a logical way. They don’t have to worry about proving anything. They don’t have to let their brain function as though they’re controlling anything. They don’t have to be the functional, capable person that they usually are. They’re hypnotized. The rules they know about being a person don’t apply, and it doesn’t matter if their consciousness has to parse through that -- eventually, their process will change, and eventually, they’ll notice those subtle changes getting bigger and reducing their mental capabilities, and then they will go SO much deeper.
And then you can call them a stupid, hot idiot for not being able to think straight :)
In Conclusion: Have Fun!
See? Erotic hypnosis is so easy, even a bimbo can do it -- and if I can do it, so can you! Ignore all of the boring big words and concepts unless they get you and your partner off. Break the rules! Do the hot things! Stop worrying about if your partner is in trance or not and start being a slut for all aspects of perception shifts. Enjoy!
Comments
Lyke Maladay
Beautifully expressed! I love the way you cut through all the complex theories and bring it back to the simple level that the most important thing is the relationship between the hypnotist and the subject.
