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My "Creative Cyborg" talk + more!

🕑 Added 2024-09-03 01:34:30 +0000 UTC
My "Creative Cyborg" talk + more!

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Laura

I love the "Use Sunscreen" talk for age-related advice, and just because I'm going through the process right now: You are allowed to leave, be that relationships or events or jobs (switching jobs now). You are allowed to say No. It's a very powerful word and life in general is not a race or a thing to be won. It's not a competition. And: time passes anyway, so even if it takes long, do the thing, because time will pass anyway.

Brittany B.

+1 to the "start stretching, stop drinking" advice. I hate how much time I literally wasted in my 20s on drinking (frequently alone) and smoking weed (often alone). Using those substances as a stand-in for "recreation" became a daily habit and made me miserable and depressed. What a huge waste of time and money. Now I have found a legitimately engrossing and productive hobby: knitting! (And crochet... And spinning... Probably soon dyeing wool and weaving at some point ...) Just think of all the cool things I could have made when I was literally just rotting my brain instead. (I'm sober now.) Anyway, I guess my advice boils down to: if you don't have a hobby, get one. Do something with your hands every day. Give yourself challenges to make new things and try new techniques. Learning is exhilarating! And my other advice is: if you're depressed and/or anxious, take stock of your life. Don't blame it on "brain chemistry" as if you have no control over your life. Eat real food. Get a good sleep; you should not regularly wake up feeling tired. Get outside the house (even when it's cold). Let the sun touch your skin. Move your body every day. Stretch. SEE YOUR FRIENDS! make new friends (see also: get a hobby).

Colin

Just turned 39 here. 1. Mentally, agree that age isn't to be feared. I am happier, wiser, more fulfilled etc now than at 29. 29 year old me did not have his shit nearly as together as I do, and I have no doubt 49 year old me will say the same thing. 2. Physically, it keeps getting harder, so take care of your body. Injuries are especially bad, take forever to heal and some may be with you forever, so be careful.

Nicky Case

Thank you for sharing! [realizes my posture right now is terrible, does a big stretch]

PlayguePals

Age is not a number to be feared, it's just a checklist of rotations. Thirties allow you to either grow in the skills you have already established or realize that you would like to refocus on new ones and use your forties to master them. You have not failed, you have not lost, you are living your life in your way. Also, it would be a good idea to start stretching and stop drinking.


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