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🕑 Added 2025-11-20 18:31:38 +0000 UTC
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EMILIE PAYET

I don't know how to explain it better, but when we need someone else, this incompleteness could be hiding underlying suffering, trauma, fear—perhaps the fear of abandonment. I'm not a psychologist, but it seems to me that you're perhaps only seeing the surface of the problem. Being whole allows us to "give better," enabling a healthy exchange, unlike a toxic one that might resemble an arrangement, therefore one with conditions. Pure love shouldn't be terrifying, and especially not unconditional. To vibrate at the frequency of love, to embody it, is already to love. If you don't know when you can do this, I can't say; it's up to you to walk that path for yourself.

David

Yes to tjis call to "accept every part of ourselves, the weak, the fearful, the imperfect". But as I read through to the end, I ask : what if this acceptance of our weaknesses actually reveals that we need the other, truly need them? You write theta "love is no longer something to find but the very essence of what we are". But then, if our true nature is Love - and not a self closed in upon itself - isn't it precisely in this giving and receiving? The Buddha taught that our suffering comes from the illusion of a permanent, complete self. If love is our essence, then our essence is to be open, incomplete, reaching toward the other. To accept our weaknesses would be to accept this very need to be completed - not by just anyone in a fusional way, but in this truth that we discover ourselves through loving. When you say we must first "become whole" so that "love comes naturally", when would I ever love then? The text postpones love to an "after" - when I'm ready, when I vibrate at the right frequency. But real love is accepting to be transformed now, by someone who isn't just "what resonates with my state" but truly other, with their rough edges, their resistance. Love doesn't flow "effortlessly" toward us - it demands that terrifying abandonment where I carry and am carried, incomplete with another incomplete person.


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