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Boundaries Of Beauty - Part One
🕑 Added 2025-10-06 16:26:52 +0000 UTCYour kindness is pure beauty, not everyone deserves it.
« If you want angels in your life, you must create a paradise. Angels do not live in hell. »
What is it you want to hear?
That you are loved?
That you are understood?
That you'll be safe?
In this world, this dramatic world?
You tried to avoid it, but it’s real.
They are here.
The dysfunctions.
Or is it you who is malfunctioning, who works poorly?
Is that what you think?
Is that what you were told?
Don’t think too much, or you’ll create it.
The world in which you live,
You create it.
What about considering changing it?
« All is full of love and it’s all around you. You'll be given love, you have to trust it. » B.
I have a friend who told me:
« I was thinking about trying to send a message of love to everyone, and it was similar to trying to send everyone the recipe for a dish that will surely make them feel glowing and happy and full of life but the trouble is, no matter how good you feel eating the dish, it doesn’t mean many other people have access to the ingredient. »
Love is a language, so just by offering this energy is enough to spread it, like a garden, it takes time.
« It's very much like a garden and from what I know about gardening is that you do not try and feed the plants, you just feed the soil.Then they sort it out from there. »
Yes, it is not about feeding people with love, it is about putting it out there in the Ether, where we evolve.
I love this metaphor: The Ether is our soil to grow.
When you notice that you need to feed someone with love, it is over for this person to understand how to love.
It will never be enough.
Through this, you unconsciously apply a dysfunction that leads to not learning or unlearning how to love.
Like everything that is put in place to make our lives easier and which, ultimately, handicap us.
Assistance deprives us of learning.
We become emotionally handicapped and it is a trauma, a silent one, a black hole that grows.
Black holes are never filled, black holes endlessly suck up everything in their way.
That’s where ‘love’ hurts.
The love that truly nourishes us lies in the Ether, in the invisible part of the world with which we are all connected regardless of our beliefs.
The reason why we can’t feed from it lies in the fact that we do not choose to anchor ourselves in this subtle, divine and fitting space, or because we do not treat ourselves well, this is how we create dysfunctions in physical space.
Therefore, we cannot resonate with what we want to attract.
Think of your etheric body, your energetic body, as a musical instrument that resonates with others; through this it attracts what it emits. If you are no longer in agreement with what you attract, simply retune your instrument. This allows you to assert your entire being.
Fear attracts control and manipulation.
And don’t think that manipulators can’t be manipulated.
They can. Manipulated by money, fame, greed, vanity, pride, lust…
Pairing themselves with "their own kind ».
“They fear love because it creates a world they cannot control” G.O -1984.
Love is not about control, it’s even the opposite.
If people think they can control someone through love, they will be disappointed.
It is not necessary to mention that those who have the will to control do not behave in the name of love,
And on the other hand, if control succeeds, it will be because of emotional insecurities, fears, lack of affection that ties people in a toxic attachment.
There are no such things as possession in Love.
Love is Freedom.
If you feel a little 'oppressed' in society, it may be because you feel the lack of love around you, in the Ether.
"I love you" she says
"Take care of yourself" he replied
It may seem a bit harsh, but it is not; it is a genuine act of love.
Loving is caring and taking care.
It shouldn’t need to be shown off, and it doesn’t mean being at people’s disposal.
You don’t 'need' to be kind despite being a loving person; the safety of your being is what is more important.
Learning to take care of oneself is learning to love.
Being hard on oneself can put us in danger.
Set boundaries if needed, say no if necessary, put a stop before it’s enough.
Few weeks ago I got assaulted and hit badly in Paris. Strangely, the day before I was in another city and a stranger at the train station started to talk to me and told me how dangerous it is to live in Paris. I told him it was okay and that my neighborhood was safe.
Guess what, it happened in my neighborhood.
To be honest, I don’t know if this guy was an angel or a demon, but he was that kind of messenger.
The reason why I found myself in this dangerous situation is because I was trying to help the person responsible for the assault and I forgot my safety.
I did not take care of myself.
And if I don’t take care of myself, it’s a sign that I haven’t applied love to myself, so how can I expect to understand how to be loved back if I can’t do it for me.
If I do not radiate the energy that I want to attract.
I’m not saying that helping people is dangerous, I’m talking about forgetting our own safety.
When you are 'too' kind, ‘too' nice, you get hit. You got hurt.
Being kind and safe requires clear discernment.
In relationships, it is important to discern how to differentiate between love and attachment.
Attachment is a prison, it resonates with the conditions and expectations.
True love is about freedom and sometimes knowing to say goodbye.
I wonder, why don’t people want to be safe? Is that a thrill to seek in our world?
There are, in this very world, so many more thrills to experience.
Those who have already perceived and felt the Etheric world know what I am talking about.
There is a very simple way to feel this world.
Through the Heart and in Full Consciousness.
To connect to this energy that resides in the center of your chest allows you to feel and perceive that invisible space.
There is absolutely nothing intellectual about understanding how it works.
It is one of our greatest prides. The Heart.
It is here that you feed on divine and real energy.
It is here that you radiate this pure and divine energy.
This energy keeps us safe.
When you start intellectualizing, you kill all access to it.
In this materialistic, limited, dangerous and hopeless world that the system wants to impose on us, we begin to distrust what is beautiful.
Truly and genuinely beautiful.
A beauty that some want to destroy out of fear.
I understand why bad things happen to people.
Making us live in fear.
So that they can control.
It’s horrible to feel insecure. It limits. And then it rots us from the inside.
What a waste...
For this full moon in Aries, I will give you a secret.
If you have the chance to go out and see the moon, please take the time to look at her and feel her energy shedding over and within you, like a moon shower; this might help connect with the Ether.
When you activate this connection, you will literally feel connected to everything.
Subtle at first but with practice in an intense way.
It’s so beautiful to feel connected with the whole universe.
Through emotions too. Take the time to feel without judging your emotions.
When we surrender to our emotions in acceptance, we activate this connection.
Emotions connect us to our energy body which allows us to communicate with the divine and without words, sometimes miles away, with people we want to reach...
Ether is the link that connects everything.
Therefore, it is important to protect ourselves from energy interference that we do not want.
I will not use the term "bad" energy or "bad" people, there are in my eyes, no bad people and no bad energies, just people in distress.
It’s ok to stay away from them so that they have the chance to learn to overcome their own distress, by themselves.
The hard way as they say...
Don’t allow them to change who you are. Understanding is a real power.
A power that does no harm.
We are not responsible for people’s happiness.
Just like those who blame us for their misfortune can also be wrong.
Those who choose to remain locked in their misfortune out of laziness or weakness and blame others...
I’m not talking about crimes. Let’s be clear here.
Our unhappiness, like our happiness, depends solely on us.
Not learning from difficult situations is always possible. Not everyone is strong for this life.
For those who have experienced great suffering, rather than being grateful for having overcome it, be grateful to find the strength to do so. It’s so easy to be weak.
Embodying love is not about being 'too' kind.
Being "too" kind leads the people you interact with not to work on not taking things personally.
Not taking things personally leaves you in that comfort zone of being unwilling to evolve.
Beings not wanting to evolve do not evolve this world, nothing new under the sun...
A world that will surely not be better if it remains so.
Triggers are teachers, learn from them and you will heal.
Freedom comes from healing, not enlightenment.
But awakening can help you heal.
It is what the activation of the power of the Heart does.
Connecting us to the source that awakens, heals, and liberates.
Our brain can retain pain and danger as a "safe place" if that’s what we’ve been used to knowing, what we experienced.
Pay attention to the comfort in which you settle.
Treat yourself first to unmask evil in disguise.
This can also be the voice in your head... that’s why I only trust the Heart.
We don’t have to please people.
It’s the open door to the devil.
Also, most people are simply never pleased.
No happy ending this time.
We don’t have to be "too"... nice.
« What is acquired is deserved. » D.H
We have one life, take care of it, it goes fast.
Having your head in the steering wheel prevents you from being aware of the existence of the breadth of perspective.
What I mean by that is if you feel that life fucks you badly, just change position and enjoy it somehow.:)
Happy full moon, beautiful souls, take care of yourself, be grateful for your body, heart, and soul,
With Love*
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By Paul-Henri Pesquet in Britanny
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Forever thank you for your support <3
