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What is Love ?
🕑 Added 2025-03-14 23:34:19 +0000 UTCFull Moon in Virgo
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"Once upon a time, there were two universes.
Two energies that were unconnected.
Their differences were such that not only were they unlike each other, but they were singularly, completely opposite.
Their attraction, fueled by the excitement of a naive curiosity, generated an unknown force within them.
This force destabilized the established order.
There was no longer any control.
So it was in a desperate act that they clung to each other, as if their survival depended on it.
Through this act, they were surprised by an experience they had never imagined.
A divine dance, a mystical union.
From this union, chaos was born.
A chaos so powerful that these two universes exploded into countless particles scattered into nothingness.
Then one day, somewhere in this nothingness, under the warm light of a benevolent star, new strains of life appeared. with unusual behaviors.
They began to develop at such a crazy pace that they quickly became as numerous as they were diverse.
However, they evolved according to a constant, from which a certain similarity stood out.
That of constantly seeking to "connect."
The blast of the explosion gave birth to the life we know.
And what if, ultimately, symbolically, they continued to seek each other, in a more subtle dimension, seeking to connect with each other, through what remained of them, what constituted the vestiges of their last embrace.
As if the final embrace of these celestial bodies had left an imprint.
A program implanted in the behavior of the living.
What if their devastating fusion was not the sum of the cohesion of their respective differences but simply due to a lack of understanding of their own individualities?
What if all that began to intrinsically recompose the fruit of their reunion was ultimately the search for a more complex, more subtle but healthier connection with the aim of repairing the path of their common quest, although sincere, but suddenly interrupted as if consumed by the uncontrollable blaze of an unexpected encounter?
As if they had missed a certain stage, such as that of self-knowledge rather than the need for recognition through the eyes of others.
That of an inner reconnection, authentic, pure, and without judgment.
That of awareness and acceptance of their uniqueness resonating in harmony within a unity.
Comparison kills personality.
The loss of our personal sense of identity, and therefore of our personality, is due to comparison and judgment, both personal and impersonal.
To escape this, we must make an act of grace, an act of tolerance.
That is, to grant ourselves the ability to exempt others from all forms of responsibility, to the detriment of our inability to question ourselves.
This often goes hand in hand with the fact that our questioning is either nonexistent or biased by the will of a system seeking to annihilate all forms of eccentricity.
Eccentricities are not flaws that isolate us from the world, but rather, they make us resemble one another, like jewels adorning God's work.
Nothing is impossible.
Our inabilities lie in our lack of awareness.
Inability / Unawareness
Capacity / Awareness
Capacities are born from our courage to undertake new pathways of evolution.
New pathways begin to appear when we "listen outside our comfort zone."
It's about opening ourselves to new ways of thinking.
And that begins with choosing how to nourish ourselves.
Nourishing our being and our daily lives.
It involves separating what we need from what truly makes us feel good.
It involves an autonomous discernment of things.
A reasoned analysis of the existence of the things and events around us in an autonomous and stable manner.
It involves being able to evolve as individuals despite external differences.
We too seek this embrace deep down.
And when connection is impossible, we secretly suffer.
Yet it is important to embrace our solitude.
To meet in depth sincerely.
People can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves.
To meet within it is to reunite within, which action mute into a pattern.
Unite what seems to be opposed, create unity, within ourselves and then elsewhere.
God and Us. The matter and the subtle. The individual and the rest of the universe.
To reunite two opposite ideas leads us to experience the full consciousness of the Whole.
Embracing your emotions is spirituality.
“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may seem paradoxical to you, but it is not. »
Osho
“If you have found something beyond the physical, Death is not an issue. If all you know is only physical, then it is a big issue because it is the END of everything that you know. »
There is a deep connection between these two statements.
The capacity to be alone is often established when we have found something beyond that physical.
The discovery of something beyond physical opens the way to learning about the self. Perhaps the cure for loneliness and all kinds of fears.
I asked a friend about that.
“Do you think I am too crazy so I want to escape the lack of meaning of the physical world by inventing something beyond the physical? »
He said no.
I continued “What do you prefer: that there is no sense to this physical world or that there is a sense that we only might find outside the physical? »
He answered: “It would be so sad if there was no sense…”
Also the discovery of this world can be destabilizing, so that is why we must work on our anchoring by consciously nourishing our being and our daily life.
The bridge to this world lies in not giving up on our dreams in favor of our comfort zone.
Also stepping out of our comfort zone is about ceasing to hide in our parents' traumas. It keeps us away from knowing ourselves.
We can’t reach this state by blaming our parents for our trauma.
Either they did something traumatic or they are no longer among us.
The blame is a way to explain how lost we are.
To be lost in this life is worse than death, which is finally liberating, this is where people make some unexplained choices.
It is so hard for people to connect deeply with others because they have a hard time connecting within themselves.
Knowing how to love is knowing how to accept that things do not always work out as we would like.
The greater healers are the people who suffered the greatest.
Those who succeed in overcoming great pains.
Stop blaming. Others or ourselves.
We don’t meet people by accident, and people don’t have to stay forever.
It's okay.
Sometimes it is simply because we feel the need for someone to rescue us, save us, to fill a void, for excitement or maybe just for distraction.
We don't need people. It is not the people's responsibility.
Why rush something we want to last forever?
I understood why I was alone.
I think because I was showing too much interest to people even in undirected ways.
To make deeper conversations because I wanted them to feel in a safe place but I was actually putting them in front of their habits, of their limits.
Even though they were into it and passionate, I was going so far that it revealed things they did not want to think about.
Some people got scared, they wanted things to be simple.
Some others got interested, I was fulfilling some traumas and wounds holes.
That’s not my job.
I might be having missed connections because I was overstepping their realities.
Feeling like in fact, humanity no longer wants to make choices.
Then I remember that not receiving a message is also a message and that we have free will to leave whatever seems to be leading us nowhere.
Do we really have to learn to know true happiness only by experiencing great unhappiness?
I made it shorter this time, I ll leave you to that last crypted lines *
Happy Full Moon in Virgo beautiful souls and forever thank you for your support <3
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with Stefan in Marseille.
Comments
David Hocquet
L'amour est comme un chêne qui pousse en cherchant le ciel et la lumière, prolongeant chaque jour ses racines, cherchant à être plus fort et plus solide, afin de lutter contre toute tempête et tourments charriés par la vie.
